Wingnut’s First Cut

For a while I’ve been wondering if I should trim up Wingnut’s hair.  It’s pretty long and sometimes the front hangs in his eyes.  I love it long, though, because it keeps him looking baby-ish to me and I’m not quite ready to let that go yet.  Then a couple of nights ago ODD suggested cutting it because it was hanging over his ears.  Hair hanging over ODD’s ears makes him crazy so he thought it might be making Wingnut crazy, too.  So tonight I finally gave in a did it.

And I almost cried.

When I cut Peanut’s hair for the first time – even to just trim a quarter of an inch off – I felt ready.  I don’t think I was ready for Wingnut’s cut.

One of my favorite things ever is when I’m nursing him and he reaches his round baby hand up to twiddle his hair.  He twines his fat baby fingers into his fine baby tresses and tugs on them, twisting them around, and playing with them.  It makes me want to kiss his sweet little hands when I see them absentmindedly pulling on his long locks.

Playing with hair

Playing with hair

Playing with hair

After cutting his hair tonight I nursed him before bed and he tried twiddling his hair but there wasn’t much to grab hold of.  He didn’t seem too fazed but it about tore my heart out and made me tear up a little again.

Before the cut.  It really was quite long.

Long hair

He’s sad about wearing a cape but notice the hair over his ears.

Hair on ears

After the cut.

Cut Hair

The haircut itself went well.  He hated the cape and fussed until I took it off him at which point I discovered it had been irritating a little bit of his neck and had given him an owie.  After the cape was removed, though, he was happy to sit there playing with my neck brush while I clipped, sprayed, and cut with only a little residual whimpering about his newly acquired neck irritation.   I think next time I’ll forgo the cape altogether and cut his hair with him in just a diaper.  Despite my misgivings about the new do it is nice to see everything evened up.  I’m going to give it a lot of time before I cut it again, though, and next time I don’t think I’ll take it quite as short.  I’m not really the kind of mom whose kid has shaggy hair but I’d love to be the mom whose kid has hair like Christopher Robin.

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